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Selfish or selfless? Anti-natalists say they're going child-free to protect the kids they won't have

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In the first few days after Donald Trump's election in November 2024, purchases of , with two companies reporting sales about 1,000% higher than the preceding week. Meanwhile, Planned Parenthood reported a 760% the day after his win.

Many Americans are fearful that the incoming administration , 2½ years after the U.S. Supreme Court overturned the constitutional right to abortion. Today, roughly one-third of states almost entirely or after the first six weeks of pregnancy—before many women and girls .

for Trump's second administration . But some of his allies have suggested that not having children is itself a moral failing.

In , for example, Vice President-elect JD Vance said that people "become more attached to their communities, to their families, to their country because they have children." In 2021, that low birth rates "have made many elites sociopaths." During a Trump rally in 2024, Arkansas Gov. are a "permanent reminder of what's important" and "keep me humble." Kamala Harris—who has two stepchildren, but no —"doesn't have anything keeping her humble," Sanders said.

Beyond politics, many people hold similar views. People from New York Times columnist to have described decreasing as a sign of self-centered cultures.

Plenty of childless people want children but can't have them. Other people may not want kids for personal or economic reasons. But advocates for "anti-natalism," a relatively new social movement, argue . The push back against the idea that childlessness is selfishness. They believe they are protecting their unborn children, not neglecting them: that childlessness is the ethical choice.

Then and now

In the 1970s, the word "anti-natalism" referred to policies designed to reduce a country's fertility rate, such as the in India during the state of emergency from 1975 to 1977. Such policies were designed to address and poverty, spurred in part by growing environmental awareness.

In the following decades, niche environmental movements such as were influenced by this trend and encouraged people to stop having children .

However, anti-natalism first came to denote a moral philosophy in 2006, when two key books were published: "," by Belgian activist Théophile de Giraud, and "," by South African philosopher .

Rather than emphasize the damage new humans cause to the planet, this new anti-natalism emphasizes the harm life brings to the unborn. By not having children, these philosophers argue, people help the unborn avoid the inherent painfulness of life. The unborn cannot experience life's pleasures, either—but as , "those who never exist cannot be deprived."

Anti-natalism took off among a collection of online communities but reached a broader audience in 2019, when Raphael Samuel, a Mumbai businessman, attempted to for giving birth to him without his consent. The stunt sparked public conversation about the ethics of procreation and prompted the formation of the activist group .

Various anti-natalist groups have formed across the globe since, including with about 230,000 members. , founded in the U.S. in March 2021, has spanning Canada, Bangladesh and Poland. That same year, Asagi Hozumi and Yuichi Furuno created and have been holding frequent outreach events in Tokyo since 2023. In early 2024, an Israeli activist named Nimrod Harel planned a in more than 30 cities.

Stake in the future

Criticism of anti-natalists comes in many different flavors. Most frequently, however, anti-natalists complain that they are called selfish: that critics assume they are prioritizing their own freedom over raising the next generation. "I never understood people who say 'not having children is selfish,'" one anti-natalist wrote in their community group chat. "Name me one reason you are (having children) for the child's sake."

can be motivated by a desire for freedom and self-actualization, but it doesn't have to be. Often, among the anti-natalist online communities I study, the point of not having children is precisely to protect them.

Shyama, an anti-natalist from Bengaluru, India, used to teach low-income children. After witnessing the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic on her students, she hopes to pivot toward a career in mental health research for children and adolescents.

She speaks about her own children, but only in hypothetical terms, having vowed not to have kids. When she reads about bad news, she feels relieved that her children never have to suffer like that. She refuses birth for their sake. When her friends accused her of challenging other people's right to have a child, she told me that "this was less unfair than bringing another life into this world and imposing an entire lifetime of inevitable suffering on it."

Some critics respond that having children . Philosopher , for instance, argues that having children personalizes the future, anchoring parents to a community that .

Anti-natalists, however, refuse to equate children with a stake in the future. Anugraha Kumar, a Marxist anti-natalist, told me that most leaders within the Communist Party of India are childless. Without needing to support a family, they are free to fight for a better future.

Secularizing birth

Throughout history, catastrophic events have provoked reflection about the ethics of reproduction. After the Holocaust and the atomic bombing of Hiroshima and Nagasaki, writers documented some survivors' apprehensions about giving birth. According to , anxieties about climate change, the economy and political turmoil have fueled current questions about .

But I have argued that this narrative in how many modern societies understand birth.

Traditionally, birth was often considered entwined with religion: something predestined, or even shaped by divine intervention. In many of the societies where anti-natalist groups have formed, however, parents have far more control over whether to give birth, when and to whom—and birth is viewed in a more secular way.

Birth is less often viewed as part of divine order but often likened to a lottery: a game of chance where parents roll the die and their children suffer the consequences. Japanese anti-natalists, for example, sometimes ": vending machines that spit out a toy at random each time someone inserts money.

Parents choose to "spin the wheel of life," an anti-natalist from Philadelphia told me, without knowing what kind of life they will create. Without a way to acquire consent from the unborn, he added, "This is not a risk that is ours to take."

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